Many of us just refuse to travel back to the core of ones being. Whenever the person tries to introspect, that is if ever s/he tries, s/he just couldn’t accept his/her deformities, weakness. I think there is indeed truth with the saying that “Truth hurt,” most of the time.When other people criticize us, or point to us our weaknesses, often we hold grudges towards the other, hate them, abhor them. What they may be saying are not true of who we really are, but most often than not we have such resentments because what they’re saying are indeed true and we just cannot, or shall I say don’t want to accept it, don’t want to recognize it

…and so the ugly reality of what we are keeps on banging into our face because we don’t learn.

We refuse to learn.